observant she's not

[amezri]

You'd think being defriended, banned from commenting, and out-right avoided by several LJs would be a hint. When people make a community whose topic is the avoidance of you? That might be a really big face slap. And it would seem you understand if you send an angry letter to the owner of the community, because, hey, that's a normal reaction. Good for you. You trying to join that community? OMFG-Retarded.

Yeah, it's public. Wanna do something about it, bi-yotch? Bring it.

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[mrbig1316.livejournal.com]

*makes note*

Do not, in any way, shape or form piss off Cyn.

[amezri.livejournal.com]

The funny thing is I haven't done any of it. Well, I was really mean yesterday. But the above? Been done by several people to the same person who has never taken the hint. Like, ALL YEAR. Crazy stalker.

[mrbig1316.livejournal.com]

No I meant the last bit, the bring it part. ;)

[amezri.livejournal.com]

Uh. Oh. LOL I blame tiredness and insulation in the eyes and throat....

*runsaway*

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

O_o

Dude... I love you but, come on, do the words "livejournal abuse" mean anything to you?

lol Sorry man, but I just think you're going about it the wrong way. I don't know what's been going on but making a lj community about them is just mean.

[devilwrites.livejournal.com]

I don't think SHE made the comm, she's just referring to it.

[amezri.livejournal.com]

devilwrites is correct. I'm just making an observation that when you stalk/harass/antagonize a group of people so much that they feel forced to do something as drastic as that and you still want to join them? Something is not right in your head.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

It's still mean, even if she's just a member... she's active in it and it's mean. I don't think she'd like it if someone did that to her, i'm just saying...

[amezri.livejournal.com]

If I ever got that obnoxious and stalkery and people couldn't get through by simply telling me? (and banning and defriending and warning all their other friends about me) I damn well hope someone would make a comm like that so maybe I could get a freakin' clue.

I'm not sure you appreciate the amount of aggravation it took for people to get to this point.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

It's public humiliation, basically. The best thing is to ignore it... I can't imagine how I would feel if there was a whole community dedicated to people hating me. It would hurt my feelings. I just think you should be the bigger person and just ignore this person.

[amezri.livejournal.com]

I have been ignoring her. For the past two years. It's not helping.

And I'm much smaller than you'd imagine. Heh.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

I still think public humiliation is going a bit too far... ignoring her is the best way to do it, block her IP or something.

I just don't think you would like it, and I think you should be the more mature person and just let it go...

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

You don't think I'm at least a little bit right? It's the intenet, you won't even have to think about this person if you just don't pay attention.

[amezri.livejournal.com]

heh, sorry, I had posted the comment before I was done writing. See below.

I'd think you were right if the person in question had taken the thousands of hints we had thrown at her over the last two years.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

I saw :P

You're just feeding the fire, that's all I'm saying...

[amezri.livejournal.com]

*shrug* I guess you're the more mature person, then.

In anycase, I don't see it as public humiliation since no one was told about it, the posts are all private, the community is closed, there's really no mention of said person except in the comm name and one other thing (neither of which are humiliating), and the only way you'd find the place is if you were still stalking our livejournals after everyone told you to bugger off.

Really, I think this is less mean that what I would have done. I would have been publically humiliating, with names and all. Well, that's all I have to say about it guess. Feel free to think what you will of me.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

I don't think anything but what I think. And what I think is that you shouldn't make such a big deal out of it... this girl obviously has nothing better to do then bug people and she's feeding off people who hate her because of it. It's probably hilarious (if not hurtful) to her that people don't like her.

But I still love ya, have nothing against ya and think you should do what you want.

[fyrdrakken]

The problem with turning the other cheek is it doesn't work so well if the person still keeps showing up. They make new e-dresses and LJs and AIM IDs to get around it when you ban the old ones, and you have to question whether they're worth it if you allow yourself to be harassed into making your LJ friends-only (or even friends-comment-only) and your AIM account refuse all contacts from non-friends and delete e-mail from unfamiliar addresses. Because when these people don't get the point (or really really get off on the aggravation they're causing), you have to turn yourself into Greta Garbo online to cut off all contact.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

I see how it can be annoying, believe me, I do. But I don't really care anymore, all I'm saying is that it's going a little too far because I would be hurt if someone did that to me. On the other hand, this could just be fueling the fire and they may be getting a kick out of it and either way, it doesn't seem to be helping.

[fyrdrakken]

It's venting, which can indeed be constructive in the sense of letting off steam and keeping people from doing something really offensive or upsetting. And since the person isn't responding to hints, a logical conclusion is that she's enjoying the attention even when it's negative. So by forming a community where her trollees can commiserate, everyone's happy.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

Right man, whatever, vent.

[devilwrites.livejournal.com]

Just because you're a member of something doesn't mean you ACTIVELY participate in it. And even if she does, how's that any different than her ranting in her LJ and people sympathizing, or OTHER people ranting in THEIR LJ and her sympathizing? Sure, you can make the argument about it's their LJ and they can do what they want, but the same is true with communities.

[dumdeedum.livejournal.com]

I still don't know man, her journal is her journal, a community is a little more public. Either way, it doesn't seem to be helping the situation.

[bee-oh-three.livejournal.com]

OK, I read this girl's entries and seen her harassments...she deserves the flaming she's getting. That's my own opinion.

[devilwrites.livejournal.com]

You know, this occurred to me when I was remember the comment someone said about LJ-abuse in terms of that comm...

...couldn't you turn HER (you know of whom I speak) into LJ abuse for what she's been doing?