It's official: I am a picky dater!
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amezriSpent the morning procrastinating at match.com. Took their report tests, and are they ever accurate.
personality test
You're adored, and for good reasons (who adores me? No one adroes me..)
You bring real passion to life. You're a woman of great integrity who'll stand up and fight for causes she believes in. You have a vision for the future and always are searching to find love and a sense of "balance" in your life. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. You have lots of friends and really appreciate the people in your life. You put the ones you love ahead of everything else. In fact, sometimes you can put them ahead of your own needs. You're overdue to bring real romance into your life and ready to experience a powerful "spark" with someone special.
Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.
* You're a strong-willed woman and at times people see you as being bossy or controlling.
* Some days when you're in a bad mood and can't hide it, co-workers or friends take it personally and think you're upset at them.
* At times you can become so focused on ideas, plans for the future, or a new project that you lose track of the day to day details of life (like doing laundry, balancing your checkbook, or even eating).
You may notice
* If you're talking about a passion of yours, you can talk more than you mean to.
* You have a lot going on in your head and can forget to take care of practical things.
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Physical attraction
Favorite Qualities
* Your choices suggest a man over 30 may be a little old for you
* You seemed interested in dating a man at least 25 or older
* Very handsome men
* Sharp, narrow chins
* Narrow and pointed "triangular" faces
* So-called "Ectomorphs," or thin angular faces
Favorite Looks
Some may call one of your types "Pretty Boys," but all you know is that they're gorgeous. The combination of classic good looks with small noses, beautiful eyes, and full lips is hard to resist. These guys tend to be clean shaven, have clear skin, and get good hair cuts. They're taking good care of themselves so they can be "pretty" just for you! [Well, you and the 1 in 3 women (33%) that are also after them!]
Another of the "looks" that you consistently noticed has been described as "The Boy Next Door." He has an open face, with big eyes, and a big grin. He has a youthful or boyish quality that will follow him throughout his life. Typically this look is associated with light brown hair, a close shave, and blue or hazel eyes. These guys convey a warm, trusting impression, but watch out for that mischievous side! Our studies find that about 1 in 5 women (18%) are especially attracted to this youthful look.
Favorite Face Type
You especially liked a pattern scientists refer to as "Ectomorphs." Geometrically, they are similar to triangles, because they are widest at the cheekbones and then narrow to a relatively pointed chin. Ectomorph men are said to have "angular" features, including a chiseled nose and prominent cheekbones. Historically, these faces have been viewed as distinguished and were often found on European royalty. These men also tend to have lean builds. [And, you may want to watch out for those ears, since on true Ectomorphs, they tend to stick out a good bit.] About 22% of other women especially prefer this face type.
Your Favorite Body Types
One type of body you seemed to like is scientifically called an "Ectomorph," which is a fancy way of saying you like "skinny" guys. Okay, so he's put on a couple of pounds in the mid-section. But he'll always have a long, narrow frame and look good in or out of clothes. Since these guys don't get as much attention as the football jocks, he'd probably be surprised to know that for you skinny is sexy. His shoulders may not be broad (and are probably a little bony, so you won't want to rest your head on them indefinitely). But he has long, strong arms to wrap around you. These men make up around 3% of the single population. Keep your eyes out for signs like long necks, Adam's apples, pointed chins, and relatively long upper bodies compared to legs. At about 5'10", they tend to run about 130 pounds.
3%? Yeah.. no wonder I can't find a guy I like the look of. *snort* But I'm also thinking between 130 and 160 is more accurate...
Very Picky: It's official: You're "picky." The fact is you are drawn to the most handsome of the handsome. You know what you like in men and are more selective than most women your age. Your tastes seem instinctual. You'd make a great casting agent, because you have a good eye for men who have "star quality." In real life, your high standards may be an obstacle for you. It's hard to find a man with the strong features you like, who's also well-rounded in other ways. Still, you know the importance of a real physical "spark" in a relationship, and aren't willing (or able) to settle for less. The challenge is finding a man who really wows you physically, even if he's not the most handsome man in the room.
Ha! Ain't that the truth.
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These results certainly shouldn't be any surprise to anyone who knows me. And it's a pretty good explanation (excuse?) to why I can't find a guy I like. Uh huh.
And I must be really depressed, because right now I'm registering at eHarmony. *facepalm*
Edit: In addition to the above, eHarmony now tells me that I have NO MATCHES. NONE. In the entire world. NONE. Don't I feel... special.
personality test
You're adored, and for good reasons (who adores me? No one adroes me..)
You bring real passion to life. You're a woman of great integrity who'll stand up and fight for causes she believes in. You have a vision for the future and always are searching to find love and a sense of "balance" in your life. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. You have lots of friends and really appreciate the people in your life. You put the ones you love ahead of everything else. In fact, sometimes you can put them ahead of your own needs. You're overdue to bring real romance into your life and ready to experience a powerful "spark" with someone special.
Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.
* You're a strong-willed woman and at times people see you as being bossy or controlling.
* Some days when you're in a bad mood and can't hide it, co-workers or friends take it personally and think you're upset at them.
* At times you can become so focused on ideas, plans for the future, or a new project that you lose track of the day to day details of life (like doing laundry, balancing your checkbook, or even eating).
You may notice
* If you're talking about a passion of yours, you can talk more than you mean to.
* You have a lot going on in your head and can forget to take care of practical things.
---------------
Physical attraction
Favorite Qualities
* Your choices suggest a man over 30 may be a little old for you
* You seemed interested in dating a man at least 25 or older
* Very handsome men
* Sharp, narrow chins
* Narrow and pointed "triangular" faces
* So-called "Ectomorphs," or thin angular faces
Favorite Looks
Some may call one of your types "Pretty Boys," but all you know is that they're gorgeous. The combination of classic good looks with small noses, beautiful eyes, and full lips is hard to resist. These guys tend to be clean shaven, have clear skin, and get good hair cuts. They're taking good care of themselves so they can be "pretty" just for you! [Well, you and the 1 in 3 women (33%) that are also after them!]
Another of the "looks" that you consistently noticed has been described as "The Boy Next Door." He has an open face, with big eyes, and a big grin. He has a youthful or boyish quality that will follow him throughout his life. Typically this look is associated with light brown hair, a close shave, and blue or hazel eyes. These guys convey a warm, trusting impression, but watch out for that mischievous side! Our studies find that about 1 in 5 women (18%) are especially attracted to this youthful look.
Favorite Face Type
You especially liked a pattern scientists refer to as "Ectomorphs." Geometrically, they are similar to triangles, because they are widest at the cheekbones and then narrow to a relatively pointed chin. Ectomorph men are said to have "angular" features, including a chiseled nose and prominent cheekbones. Historically, these faces have been viewed as distinguished and were often found on European royalty. These men also tend to have lean builds. [And, you may want to watch out for those ears, since on true Ectomorphs, they tend to stick out a good bit.] About 22% of other women especially prefer this face type.
Your Favorite Body Types
One type of body you seemed to like is scientifically called an "Ectomorph," which is a fancy way of saying you like "skinny" guys. Okay, so he's put on a couple of pounds in the mid-section. But he'll always have a long, narrow frame and look good in or out of clothes. Since these guys don't get as much attention as the football jocks, he'd probably be surprised to know that for you skinny is sexy. His shoulders may not be broad (and are probably a little bony, so you won't want to rest your head on them indefinitely). But he has long, strong arms to wrap around you. These men make up around 3% of the single population. Keep your eyes out for signs like long necks, Adam's apples, pointed chins, and relatively long upper bodies compared to legs. At about 5'10", they tend to run about 130 pounds.
3%? Yeah.. no wonder I can't find a guy I like the look of. *snort* But I'm also thinking between 130 and 160 is more accurate...
Very Picky: It's official: You're "picky." The fact is you are drawn to the most handsome of the handsome. You know what you like in men and are more selective than most women your age. Your tastes seem instinctual. You'd make a great casting agent, because you have a good eye for men who have "star quality." In real life, your high standards may be an obstacle for you. It's hard to find a man with the strong features you like, who's also well-rounded in other ways. Still, you know the importance of a real physical "spark" in a relationship, and aren't willing (or able) to settle for less. The challenge is finding a man who really wows you physically, even if he's not the most handsome man in the room.
Ha! Ain't that the truth.
------------------
These results certainly shouldn't be any surprise to anyone who knows me. And it's a pretty good explanation (excuse?) to why I can't find a guy I like. Uh huh.
And I must be really depressed, because right now I'm registering at eHarmony. *facepalm*
Edit: In addition to the above, eHarmony now tells me that I have NO MATCHES. NONE. In the entire world. NONE. Don't I feel... special.
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Date: 2004-08-06 10:24 am (UTC)I'd take that test, but I'm a little afraid of what it would tell me...
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Date: 2004-08-06 01:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-06 01:13 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-06 04:47 pm (UTC)i think it's just that I'm too lazy to digest anything...
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Date: 2004-08-06 05:17 pm (UTC)I'm 5'5" and 110 and I'm a guy. And I eat like crazy also...though you'd never know it.
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Date: 2004-08-06 01:51 pm (UTC)eHarmony
Date: 2004-08-06 07:48 pm (UTC)First, their database search is slow, it took several days before they found a match for me.
Second, the $50 profile they advertise drives away a lot of people. Thus, you have a smaller pool of people to search against.
Third, they don't search against accounts that are on hold. I didn't check my account for over a month and so they put me on hold. Your dream guy(s) might have got tired of waiting on his attractive spitfire liberal asian chick who's into scifi and stopped checking, so you might have to just hope he logs back in some day when he's feeling lonely.
In total, I think they found three matches for me and I'm not very picky, I think I'm just universally incompatible.
Re: eHarmony
Date: 2004-08-06 07:57 pm (UTC)Your dream guy(s) might have got tired of waiting on his attractive spitfire liberal asian chick who's into scifi and stopped checking, so you might have to just hope he logs back in some day when he's feeling lonely.
HA! If only...